Almost every person in our country knows a in child support man, in their family or a close friend, who is, at this very moment being royaly screwed by our child support system. For every legit child support situation i know of, i know of at least three or four more who undeservingly recieve compensation.
Just an example, if a mother and father both lose custody of a child, it only seems fair that both incapable parents should be required to pay child support. Well, in this situation, it doesn't happen that way. The mother of the child is incapable of providing anything for the child and has lost custody to her mother, as the father has done as well. Funny thing is, the father is in jail for unrelated charges and is still being charged 300+ dollars in child support a month, and the mother is living with the child and her mother, with no job, no assets whatsoever, and is living rent free and pays NO CHILD SUPPORT! Why is this?
Another example, a mother has custody of two children. She can not keep a job longer than 3 months, very often she has no home for her or her children. She has serious, clinically proven, mental problems that go as far as self mutilation, and on several occasions has been arrested for drunken assaults on police officers as well as her babys father. She has been caught having sex with more than one person at a time, in front of her children. She has differnt men sleeping in her bed every week. She drags the kids from friends house to step parents house to grandpas house, or whoever will let her live with them, because she has been evicted so many times no one will rent to her. Her previous choice of employment is a strip club! The oldest child (4) even says she gets to babysit her sister (2 yrs) while mommy goes to the store. She quit school, gets in fights at jobs and gets fired or mouths off at managers and gets fired. She refuses to grow up so that she can provide for her children. The only father in the picture can not see his daughter unless he does so under her conditions. He buys her anything she needs, has a good home for her with his family (fiance and son) and has the means to care for her. He forks over whatever the child needs whenever he can. But, somehow, she can file for child support and get it. The system never takes into consideration that if custody was awarded to the father, he would need no child support to raise the child. Instead, they let this obviously unfit mother raise 2 kids in these awful conditions. He has to pay child support and the money goes for the mothers cell phone and stripper heels and cigarettes because the kids are dressed awful, often they are dirty, shoes too small, clothes too big or too small.
It is ridiculous!!!
The child support system needs a good going over and alot of thing need to change. There needs to be a assesment done, and confer with the people in the system on how it could be made better. Right now the government is awarding promescuity and laziness among these young girls. It is not cool to have all these kids you cannot afford and then throw young men in jail cause they cant pay 500 a month to this lazy girl who just keeps having more kids. This is a vicious cycle and needs to be fixed!
Just needed to vent! Thank you!
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